When you agree with your wife that a hot wife lifestyle would be a good thing, don't take it lightly. You'll have to reach a alot of agreements with your wife. Who will she be having her special meetings with? Men you both know? Men onlyh she knows? Married or single men? Married men tend to be more discreet and careful, if only to keep their own marriages safe. Its alos extremely erotic allowing your wifes to have sex with a cheating married man. Will you be okay with her doing anything? Will anal be off limits? Hoiw will you feel when she copmes home and unpacks her suit case only to find semen in the crotch of her panties? How will you deal with the sexual health issue? Will you want her to be tested? Again, married men tend to be safer bets when it comes to sexual health. The big one: how will you deal with an accidental pregnancy? Unprotected sex is inevitable. And sex during ovulation can result in conception. If your wife gets pregnant, how will you deal with it? My wife used Plan B pills religously the morning after her affair nights. It takes the owrry out of my wife then she's being inseminated by her married lover. Will you be okay with pictures or videos being taken during sex? What will you do when you wife decides to move on to another man and the man she's been fucking gets jealous? Will you allow him to send gifts to the house? A lot of panning must go into consensual adultery.