She gets fingered first and that's alright with me. I don't care for oral sex and anal, forget it. I don't consider fingering as oral sex. Just about all men finger their sex partner before the fuckng begins. It's a normal part of the foreplay. You can't tell from these porn videos whether it's acting or they're really fucking. I read an article once by a female porn star and she said that somtimes they really do enjoy themselves and it's really fucking and not just acting. She said that sometimes she actually has an orgasm. Maybe that's just her. No way to tell.